YOU DO WHAT I TELL YOU !

I went out to dinner with Mom yesterday and we had a very good time. She mention that she will be getting her ramp soon. I wonder who told them to get it done because it certainly was not in their plans to build and pay for one.

So I have pieced this together, this is how it works, so everyone gets their money without any knowledge of other family members or my mom. It is very important no paper trail is left. It has worked this way for 5 years or 6 years.

First, the local poa asks her personal contractor how much he wants to construct a ramp. He states his amount, say five thousand dollars. She then informs the financial poa how much she needs transferred into the blind account which she has access to. The financial poa takes a little for her troubles and transfers the rest. The local poa who has access to the blind account, withdraws the entire amount, keeping a certain amount for her trouble and gives the rest to her contracter, a close relative. No contract is signed for the work, no permits issued and no receipts are made out. Just the cash turned over. No family members or even mom is told about the payment. We have been told repeatedly that it is not our business, this is private. Also no other contractors are contacted to give a  bid on the job.

Making note, that my Dad have lots of building materials in his garage. Wood, tiles, tools, plywood, and it is all gone now. It has been removed by the two poas. I can pretty much guess where it has gone. Two very good long ladders still exist in the garage and they too will disappear. Like the local poa says to me "She won't miss them".

It will take him, the contractor two months to get the wood over to the house to build the ramp because we have been told he is a busy fellow. When I get I over there, I will notice the wood is third grade or used wood to build the ramp. I make a comment about it to the financial poa and hear nothing back.

I finally see them building the ramp, him and Santiago. The helper will be paid with a six pack. I notice the work is not very good. It will be very near completion and then left unfinished as time goes by. The Shirley Temple and her mommy boy husband will come over to critizize the work, they worked at Deere so they know everything. They will also inspect for any dead squirrels or birds they may have died during the contruction of the ramp. They will look everywhere for receipts that can turn in for credit or items they can steal from the garage.

I call the local poa and ask about the money paid and the unfinished work, she goes into hysterics for asking. Cussing me out til the phone disconnects. She says, "Where were you?, How dare you ask?, All you do is use me? Why didnt I get off my fat  a--- and help them? And the money for the ramp is none of my business. She then hangs up and calls all her family. Crying and having a tequila to calm her nerves.

I call the other poa and she says, "What ramp?", I dont know anything about any ramp. I dont have time for all this. I am too old to be bothered with all this. All of you guys are crazy, I am the only sane one in the family. And I told you, the financial and medical affairs of MY mother is of no concern of yours."

So we have no contract, no receipts, no invoices, no money transfers, no permits and no knowledge of a ramp being built by the son in law of the local poa. Both poas call my Mom and tell her how much I am bothering them, and I have dementia.

My mother is out 5000 dollars and it was all done secretly and everyone learns again to keep their mouth shut or they will riducled like their uncle. She said to me" YOU DO WHAT I TELL YOU! at Robert Young. Sorry, I cant do that, my Dad gave me other instructions and those are the ones I follow.

Family members you make up your own minds....