Robbing Money from my Mother

Family members:

I have requested financial reports twice from the financial poa and have recieved no replies. It appears robbing money from my mother is a very simple process since they do not have to answer to anyone, especially my mom and any other brother and sister. All transactions are paid in cash, sometimes to other family members, the financial poa states she has no record of it and pleads ignorance, no city permits are issued or receipts, therefore no record. If you ask about the amount of project, you are intimitated by a poa and told it is of no concern to you.

Projects in question for several years:
 1. Two trips Mom made to Alabama, in which she was invited to go but had to pay her own way.
2. Business trip for medical poa to Louisana, Mom was required to go to Alabama. Did she have to pay for her trip?
3. Entire cost of kitchen renovation, and contractor costs? Were permits issued? Was city inspection done?
4. Entire cost of bathroom renovation and contractor costs? Were permits issued? Was city inspection done?
5. Front porch reconstructrion costs, contractor costs? Were permits issued? Was work finished?
6. New sidewalk installed around house and front of house, what were the costs?
7. Landscape work this summer, contractor costs? Family member costs? Materials?
8. Gutters on garage, installation costs, contractor?
9. Back yard walking ramp removal, costs? Purpose of no replacement?
10. Patio carpet installation, installation costs, contractor?
11. New ceiling fans, installation costs, contractor?
12. Reconstruction of moms bedroom wall, installation costs, contractor?
13. Back yard tree removal, costs, tree cutter?
14. Xmas decorations last winter, costs, receipts?
15. Doll cabinet in living room, costs?
16. Dad's bedroom set, costs? receipts?
17. Expensive DVD recorder, costs, receipts?

I estimate almost 20,000 dollars has been used from my moms account and has not been accounted for. To steal money from my mother in this underhanded way is the lowest act you can do. You say you are doing her a favor, how, "setting your own price for the work" and obtaining the money from her account. You do not notify other family members and secretly steal her money. I request again to see a full and complete financial report for five years. I can not believe you have done this to my mom and dad.