With agencies now involved looking into different matters of moms care, all of this would have been avoided had you had the courtesy to keep us informed and treated us like brothers and sisters, but you never have, never. You can continue to blame us for everything and make your kids believe that, little do they know. But the truth is becoming more evident to everyone.
Our latest trip to the emergency room at Illini, the medical poa showed another display of her power to intimitate the doctor and us. She said again she was only allowed to talk to the doctor, not even mom would be allowed to answer the doctors questions. What exactly are you two hiding from the family? This is the second time she has done this, have you taken care of the matter, have you told her to stop this behavior? You show no hesitation to yell or scold us. I dont get it? You empowered her to do this from the time Dad was sick. I remember when you had my family kicked out of my Dad's house for a party we had for Lyle. Olie said you kicked her out the house and she lived in car for 3 days with Erica, I did not know that. There is no "Dad" in you at all.
You said to me, "you must do what I tell you" do you remember that at the Robert Young Center? and you confronted me when I did not. It was you who started all of this but now you take the back seat and say you have no role in any of this. You can not believe where the medical poa is coming from ? You trained her, remember and she is dumb enough to do what you tell her. She has no sense, only anger, like you. Anger toward all of life.....
For the second time you have plead ignorance about the key for the house. EMTs can not get into the house, keys hidden are removed from the patio. It was you who wanted no one in the house, change the locks while you had Mom taken to Alabama. It was you who started all of this. Will you take the blame when she dies because the EMTs can not get to her? They had to get in through the small kitchen window. Did you know that? Do you know what is like when I heard my mom crying for me and I could not open the door? I assure this will be part of the her eulogy. This will not go unsaid if she dies and we can not reach her because of you and the key.
You should have taken the authority to get mom's central air conditioner in the house for medical reasons but you have failed to do so. So mom suffers. Do you call her daily or do you take the word of the sister you have not forgiven?
You are in control of the money but have allowed others to waste money on dvd recorders, fancy christmas decorations, doll cabinets, etc.
Another winter is coming, there is no ramp and you sit by and do nothing. Are you hoping she will fall coming down those steps? The vent is still covered, should I get a fire marshall over there and have him order the doll cabinet moved? I will do it.
I have requested a financial report twice from you and have not recieved a word from you. You issued one long time ago, making us believe you were in control but it was only a lie. And you wonder why I think you are taking money from mom now? Family members have been paid in cash for work done. How convenient the son in law of the poa? Cash....I thought you objected to that. You held the rest of us to such high standards, but failed to have city permits issued so no record of work will be recorded, no inspections by the city?
There is no slander or harrassment here as you claim, only questions anyone would ask about the care of their mother. You have failed in your position, you have failed dad and mom. If you do not want the position, let the rest of the family decide who it should do it. And certainly not your daughter. It is not your decision. You and your sister were not chosen by our parents as you have claimed to be the poas. You dont own the house, you dont own my dads memory and you dont own mom.
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